Yesterday we had dinner with my parents, my dad and step mother. We do not see them much even though they live 15 minutes away, which is completely odd since we see them as much as we did when we lived 1,100 miles away. How does this happen? Time seems to be a rare commodity when you are raising three children, working and grasping for sanity on a weekly basis. Looking back I would imagine it is because we are no longer taking specific vacations to come “home” and see family during the holidays, summer time, or any other vacation trips from our past. Now it seems that since we live so close it is easier to say we are too busy or maybe next weekend.

Anyway, the reason for this post is that over dinner conversation somehow it came up they only have 1.5 years left on their 15 year mortgage. That must be an amazing feeling. I know they haven’t paid any of it off at an accelerated rate as they moved into the place in 1995. I didn’t ask for details on their situation other than why they opted for a 15 year mortgage versus the common 30 year. They had said it was a decision based on how much of a down payment they made from the sale of their previous home. There was no concern on how long it would take them to pay it off and I wonder if maybe they would have taken a 30 year mortgage instead if not for such a large down payment.

This made me think about our current home and our 30 year mortgage. 2009 will be the fourth year in our first home and being first time home buyers we were clueless on mortgages, amortization schedules and how long until we really put a dent in our principal. Looking at our balance statement from our mortgage company makes me sick. It has been three and half years and our balance has been reduced by a mere $3,500. Our mortgage payment amounts to just under $700 a month including escrow for taxes. Essentially we are paying $400 a month to the bank for the mortgage. $400 multiplied by 42 months equals $18,900. Approximately SEVENTEEN THOUSAND DOLLARS and our balance has only been reduced by $3,500? Unbelievable.

With a 15 year mortgage the amount we paid off would have been triple at $11,000 versus the $3,500 now.

Lesson learned? Never ever get a mortgage for 30 years. If we cannot afford the home on a 15 year mortgage, we cannot afford it.